Dreams

 Reclaiming Your Dreams at Any Age

Have you ever looked back on your life and wondered, What if I had followed that dream? I’ve been thinking a lot about that lately. At 63, I’ve realized that while I’ve achieved so much, there are dreams I’ve put off for far too long. This year, I’ve decided to change that.

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is that it’s never too late to reinvent yourself. Research from Stanford psychologist Carol Dweck, author of Mindset: The New Psychology of Success, emphasizes the power of adopting a growth mindset. With a growth mindset, you see challenges as opportunities and believe in your ability to learn and grow at any stage of life.

For me, reclaiming my dreams has meant embracing creativity and pursuing my passion for writing. Starting these blogs has been a big part of that journey. It’s also about giving myself permission to dream big and make bold choices, like focusing on writing books and building a life I’ve always envisioned.

If you’re looking to reclaim your dreams, start small. Set one meaningful goal and break it down into manageable steps. Surround yourself with inspiration—whether it’s uplifting books, supportive friends, or quiet moments of reflection.

Remember, it’s not about achieving perfection. It’s about finding joy in the process and embracing the possibilities ahead.

Let’s make this year the one where we stop saying, What if? and start saying, Why not?

Research Used:

1. Habits Formation: Lally, P., van Jaarsveld, C. H., Potts, H. W., & Wardle, J. (2010). “How are habits formed: Modelling habit formation in the real world.” European Journal of Social Psychology.

2. Growth Mindset: Dweck, C. S. (2006). Mindset: The New Psychology of Success.

3. Hydration Benefits: Popkin, B. M., D’Anci, K. E., & Rosenberg, I. H. (2010). “Water, hydration, and health.” Nutrition Reviews.


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